Archive for December, 2009

When You Know the best in you!

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Most people (including me) tell his/her friends how to be good to others, behave goodly, say right things at right times, and lots of other things. And sometimes people say the same to you. That’s when you don’t like it. You tend to think “Who is he to tell me what to do or what not to do!”. But when you say the same to others then you feel proud and be like normal. But most people don’t understand is that, when you tell anyone to not be like that but be like that, he/she may not like as you do when someone tells you.

Have you told this? YES!

You might have told this to several people in your life, you can’t even recall it. Because it has now become your habit. You tell, you forget. But they hear you, but not forget. That’s the human mentality. And when this happens, there is always a chance to loose a good friend. And you don’t want that to happen, do you? So here comes Manav to the rescue! 🙂

Why do we say like this?

We say this because we don’t like a particular habit of that person and we don’t want him/her to continue this. And at the same time you don’t really wanna stop talking to that person because you love him. So the human mind says that you have to tell him/her to stop. That is the human brain working!

How to get rid of this?

Many people ask me this when I tell them about it. So you don’t wanna hurt that particular friend of yours Here’s your way out of this! Just don’t tell him anything! Yes, you don’t have to tell him anything! You see, every human in this world know the best they can do. The thing is they don’t do it! But once, they realize this is bad, they’ll stop doing that. So what you gotta do is, just sit back and let him/her do anything he/she wants! Your work is just to go on with the conversation. And you’ll see that you’ve become more comfortable with that person! This had worked for me and many of my friends, and now it’s gonna work for you!

Hope you liked this tip! If you do then comment! And if you have anything to say, or ask again just comment on this post!


Photo credits: Friends talking by rebelot on Flickr

5 Most Inspiring Blogs

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Gone are the days when people used to write for newspapers, magazines, etc. But now it’s 21st century dude! Now we have the internet. So what we can do for it? We will write a blog! Now after so many years, there are millions of blogs out there – some are active, some are sometimes active and some are completely dead. So how you’ll decide which blog to follow and which one to not? So to help you out in this thing I made a list of top 5 blogs to follow on the internet! Honest.

1. Meditation Rocks!

This blog is dedicated to meditation. There are many other blogs like these, so what makes this special? It doesn’t concentrate on old boring methods of meditation but on modern and fun methods! And this makes it inspiring and at the same time fun! You should check this out man!

2. The FRiEnDz weBlog

Have you heard of the FRiEnDz magazine? Now they have their own blog! It’s kind of not active these days, but will surely be active in some time! It’s all about teens and you can write in too! That’s inspiring, b’cause you get inspired by your own work!!

3. What Do You Call This?

If you like some informal writing that creates a sense of touch and at the same time some fun then this is your destination! Whenever I read any post on this blog, I have a smile! It can make you feel good, really! I like this blog very much!!

4. Let’s Be Optimistic!!!

This is a self-inspired one! 😛 But this means a  lot to me. Whenever I read my previous posts, I just love them. But don’t take it as a negative point, but I get inspired by it. It has also not got some new posts but some are on their way! Hope you’ll follow it!!

5. Paulo Coelho’s Blog

Have you read his books? If you’ve read them you definitely know this person’s skill and if not go read them now! This person has a great fan-following. Like his books, his blog is equally inspiring. So go and read all it’s posts!!

Hope you liked this list. If you wanna add your list or some blogs to this list, then use the comments. And do comment!!


Where Do I stand?

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From the beginning of this blog I wanted to post a poem. So here it is!

Where Do I stand?

In this world of heaviness,

In this world of silliness,

Where do I stand?

I like being with the powerful,

But I hate being the powerful,

So, where do I stand?

There are good people, there are bad ones,

There are neutral too,

Where do I stand?

When are you going to see who am I,

When am I going to see my inner self?

I don’t know what to do,

So, where do I stand?

I like flying like a kite,

Gliding with the air wherever it goes,

You may find me in thin air,

Where do I stand?

But today I ask God,

When is my time going to come?

And, when do I know where do I stand?

Slowly, slowly he tells me everything,

And gives me a prominent place in his heart!

~ Manav Dhiman

Hope you like it! And if you do or do not please don’t hesitate in commenting! A blog live on the comments it gets!!

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