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Yeah, what they think. May be this is what we call “crab mentality”. Whenever anyone is doing something good, they just want to comment on it. Hmmm… I am writing this post because I get constant comments from my friends (not on the blog though). Some say I am doing a great job, some say you are wasting your time instead you would have studied so much in that time, or the main reason I am writing this post, You don’t know how to write. Now that was the worstΒ best comment I ever got! You know, you come to my blog, you read the posts and comment what you feel. Yeah! You feel good about my writing and sometimes criticize me (that’s why this blog is still alive, and many more are in the pipeline!). But the real thing is, the real thing which I get to know about what I write is through these type of comments (You don’t know how to write!).

I am not saying that your comments are not worth it, but I’m telling that those are the people who tell me how m I doing. By receiving negative comments, orΒ criticism or whatever you wanna call that, I feel a 200 times more fired up and I want to write more posts right at that moment! Which I write too in my notebook dedicated for such kind of writing! πŸ˜› Though those writings will never ever be published here, they will remain with me all the time. They are the best things that I’ve ever written. I sometimes read my old posts and just edit them, make them more awesome, smooth, and great! And you know what? I’ve edited the first post a 20 times! Yeah, I also can’t believe that!

But the real thing is, those people who wanted to discourage me by saying that, got literally slapped on the face when they will read this post! Because all this diary stuff is still secret! πŸ˜›

“Crab mentality” has worked out for me! Really. And it can work for you too! And, I’m not going to say how. Because as I say always, No two persons are alike! So go, when you get such type of comments just make them your strengths! All the weaknesses will runaway and you’ll feel satisfied with what you are! Trust me, have fun. Don’t worry about future and don’t worry about past! Just replace fear with faith, and feel the magic!

Thanks for reading!

Photo credits: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by q8 girl on flickr.

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