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As many of my readers would have seen in my couple of previous posts that some of my fellow bloggers commented that I am way too mature of my age. Being mature is not a problem, but at this age, it fascinates them. I couldn’t clarify it via comments, so I decided to write a post on it. So let’s get started.

Now let’s see what being mature really means. In people’s minds, being mature is thinking slightly more on spiritual world. And that is kind of reflected in my posts. But what I think is based on the experiences I have had in my past. They are mixed up, delightful at some point, and completely sad at the other.

The sad and bad experiences made me learn some astonishing facts about me. But those weren’t learnings like, stay away from cockroaches or something like that which expect, but deeper than that. When I was 12 years old, that is when I was in the seventh grade, I came to a new school. At first, I had some friends and the experience was normal. But then, my friends changed, I became friends with some other guys. They were nice as well, or I thought that way. But what happened with them completely changed my view towards life.

The experience was of betrayal, and that too of a bad one. I would not bore you with the details, but we stopped talking after that. From that day I understood, that being negative attracts more negative. But this observation of mine needed more solid base.

Months passed, I was without any friends, and then I got my hands on a book called The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. It was kind of cool to know all that about the law of attraction, and my observation did make sense then. But, as would any of the beginner law of attraction “knowers” I couldn’t get what I wanted just by thinking about it. Then I realized that the book was merely a 0.01% of what you can do by just your thoughts, that’s why it wasn’t working.

Then began researching about it on the internet, and found many fascinating facts. And with that, I attracted many like-minded awesome people in my life like Ryan Biddulph and King Sidharth. They are awesome people to hang out with, and I love being with them always.

And what next? People, who were not in resonance with my type of thinking, slowly left my life. I did not realize that then, and I became very sad when I lost the first one, then the second, then the third, and so on. But then I came to know that my thinking style was slightly different from them. That made my outer layer more hard and rigid.

So whatever I experience in my life, I share it with you here on this blog. People who think I am way too mature of my age have different mindsets with completely different experiences. Hope this clears the doubts of those.

So what is your story, what are your experiences? Share them with me!

Photo credits: The Road Goes on Forever by earlycj5, on Flickr.

What they think?

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Yeah, what they think. May be this is what we call “crab mentality”. Whenever anyone is doing something good, they just want to comment on it. Hmmm… I am writing this post because I get constant comments from my friends (not on the blog though). Some say I am doing a great job, some say you are wasting your time instead you would have studied so much in that time, or the main reason I am writing this post, You don’t know how to write. Now that was the worst best comment I ever got! You know, you come to my blog, you read the posts and comment what you feel. Yeah! You feel good about my writing and sometimes criticize me (that’s why this blog is still alive, and many more are in the pipeline!). But the real thing is, the real thing which I get to know about what I write is through these type of comments (You don’t know how to write!).

I am not saying that your comments are not worth it, but I’m telling that those are the people who tell me how m I doing. By receiving negative comments, or criticism or whatever you wanna call that, I feel a 200 times more fired up and I want to write more posts right at that moment! Which I write too in my notebook dedicated for such kind of writing! 😛 Though those writings will never ever be published here, they will remain with me all the time. They are the best things that I’ve ever written. I sometimes read my old posts and just edit them, make them more awesome, smooth, and great! And you know what? I’ve edited the first post a 20 times! Yeah, I also can’t believe that!

But the real thing is, those people who wanted to discourage me by saying that, got literally slapped on the face when they will read this post! Because all this diary stuff is still secret! 😛

“Crab mentality” has worked out for me! Really. And it can work for you too! And, I’m not going to say how. Because as I say always, No two persons are alike! So go, when you get such type of comments just make them your strengths! All the weaknesses will runaway and you’ll feel satisfied with what you are! Trust me, have fun. Don’t worry about future and don’t worry about past! Just replace fear with faith, and feel the magic!

Thanks for reading!

Photo credits: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by q8 girl on flickr.

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